‘Dude, I’m Done’: When Politics Tears Families And Friendships Apart

A recent survey shows just how much the nation’s bitter political divide is causing social splintering and taking a toll on friendships.

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If you find yourself fighting with a friend over politics, or frustrated and furious with your nearest and dearest over who they’re supporting for president, you’re hardly alone. A recent survey shows just how much the nation’s bitter political divide is causing social splintering and taking a toll on friendships. Even decades-long relationships have been caving under the pressure, giving new meaning to “social distancing.”

“I did straight up say ‘Dude, I’m done. Lose my number,’” said Shama Davis, from Los Angeles, recalling when he “unfriended” a guy he’d been friends with since high school, 25 years ago.

“I just hung up on my end, and proceeded to just block him in every possible way,” said Joni Jenson from New York, still fuming over the guy she felt compelled to dump.