A Father Vows To Save His Daughter From A Marriage He Forced Her Into

Lumbaram reads aloud to Durga from a philosophy book. Since he started his effort to rescue her from her marriage, the two have grown close.

Swati Vashishtha for NPR

It was one of the worst moments of Durga’s life: the morning her father suddenly announced that in about a week’s time she would have to get married.

She was 15 years old. Her husband-to-be was in his 40s, had barely been to school and had a reputation as a heavy drinker. Even by the standards of their village in Northern India — where child marriages are still commonplace — this was a singularly bad match.

“I told my father, ‘I won’t do it,’ ” Durga recalls. “Papa said, ‘No, you have to. Then my grandparents came in the room. And they said, ‘You don’t have a choice. Everyone gets married like this. You’re not special.’ ”